If you were with someone 5 years, it will not take you a decade to get over them.
However, there are a few things you'll want to make sure you do before you dive back into the big pond full of crazy kinds of fish.
Yes, some people have a specific type, but looking for someone who acts like your ex is a bad idea.
And many have the same questions for me, their therapist and personal breakup coach: “how long is the pain going to last?
” which is quickly followed by “how soon can I get back out there?
Dear Eliza, Sorry to say, but there’s not really a one-size-fits-all answer to this question.
Consider the number of variables involved in answering: Are there children involved?